Time Passes...

How fast has it been? Is it really 2008 is ending soon? Can't imagine how time flies, thought it was just last few weeks we celebrating Chinese New Year, now its coming again!!!

There are 2 major things I can think of asking. What is my accomplishment and am I getting older? No doubt there were so so positive results but break even with the negative one too, not much different I guess. Always young at heart, inside me still think and behave like I'm a teenagers od mid 20s, have fun!! However, physically the opposite it seems. Whatever!! life is short and we need to really look back and forward at the same time. I need to handle the situation calmly...But I'm still very the happy when people and friends guess my age as in my early 30s.

Time really fly pass us very fast indeed.

Were You Surprise?

Keep low profile you say? Maybe and maybe not, depends on circumstances.

Many people including myself do not like to be so call 'expose' too much either in public or among friends. We just wanna relax and see others becomes the centre point of attention eventhough sometimes we are the one who were infront or creates the scene. We are important but there is not a need for us to be popular. But this doesn't mean we want to forgo our responsibilities. This is my personal opinion.

I have been working my butts up since many many years ago and it ain't easy. Sure, I want to be recognise for what I did. It just that theres not a need to be too obvious. Moderation is always the key. Many thought that I was someone as what they have seen (Mr. Nice Guy) and not someone they thought I would not be (the opposite). Don't be a hipocrite (wrong spelling...whatever...). All the so call 'Nice Guy' in this world sure got something bad history behind their back.

I always said to my staff, colleague and friends, when I am working 'work is work, friend is friend', both cannot collide and it should be separated. Theres always a different me when I'm at work and another when I'm outside of work (happy hours). It has been like this since the day 1 of my carrier.

Last night (Christmas Eve) was another 'night out' for me and I attended a party organise by one of my staff. The party was held at one of the best night club cum exclusive karaoke establishment in town and attended by about 20, which half of it I've never met before but they were nice people...I guest (from different neighbourhood). Few of them surprise seeing me there, they thought I'm not kinda guy will go to such a place, furthermore there were some gangsters in the same room as well and 'China Doll' girls too. We became friends later.

One of the staff who turn up late was so surprise of seeing me there, he can't believe it and starts pestering me the whole time till the end, but all starts well ends well for the party. Hey!! I'm a good guy but can do things bad people do too, this does not mean I'm bad.

Merry Christmas.

CHRISTMAS SPIRIT ANYONE?

I have been monitoring a bit about the holidays spirit (Raya, CNY, Deepavali and now Christmas) among the general public I came across with, and many seems to have forgot the meaning of all that events. Many treat these holidays as 'something like' to be celebrated, to balik kampung, to relax, to enjoy, to shop, to party and does not really...really... do what is suppose to do (real meaning of the celebrations)... the spirit has gone! It has becomes like one of the weekend or year end leave clearing.

Do you feel the joy?... Raya joy?...do you really puasa and celebrates Aidilfitri?, do you have dinner with your family during the CNY eve? do you place kolam at your house? do you have Christmas tree at your home, and place presents (to be exchange) among your family members?... and above all understand why all this event is to be celebrated, the reason behind it?

And please dont say its because you want to go party and shop shop shop till you drop... where is the spirit guys?

Happy holidays (Christmas, weekends and New Year)...

What Have You Learn Today?

WOW!!! I don't believe it!!! The last time I blog in was about more than 3 weeks ago. Fuh!! Thats unbelievable long...

Why such a gap Addie?? Emm... let me think... Yup! Its all about work...work...work... Blame the work! Blame the bossess!!! Too bad I have to bear with it since I'm still working with them (the company / the boss / the work).

There has been so many things happens and so many new things I've learned for the pasr weeks. Things that I thought not important before, no need to think about it, it just something common, nothing concerning me, it comes and it goes....

But the truth is, I started to appreciate all this things, how does it being created and why, for what purpose and who are the people working so hard to make it work and be succesfull? Nevertheless, many of us tend to takes thing for granted but when one really...really... look into it, only then we realise how precious this knowledge are and start longing to know and see more of it. Even, the part time college girls giggle about the things they have learned and have fun with it too.

K Lor for now... enjoy the watches...

Be Gratefull

Many of us always complaints of things we do not have or not being provided by our parents and goverment. Sometimes we do forgot what we have is already more than enough, it just that we don't know how to appreciate it or use it wisely, such instances as money.

The people of Malaysia and countries that share similar status should be gratefull. We can see here and there, many still talking about having not enough money to spend for food, children schooling, clothes and even place to stay. And when you go check personnaly with them, you will find this people tend to have the latest mobile phone model, astro, dvd player, big tv (29" minimum), new car, smoke 2 packs cigarrette a day, and all this they have when staying at the low cost house provided by the goverment / PPR (Projek Perumahan Rakyat). So what do you mean by not having enough money for food etc.?

During my recent trip to Nepal, I saw many of their people struggling to get a spoon feed of food. We saw their people try many things to survive especially this time of winter. You can see the whole roadsides in any part you go will be filled up by people walking here and there looking for something to do and many day time 'pasar malam' or 'pasar chow kit' in polluted and unhealthy conditions. When the taxi stop at junctions, beggars will come and knock the door and window. Don't mentioned about the traffic, cars and bikes were honking everywhere. The people selling any products from jewelry to handicraft will keep on pestering you to buy their merchandises from the time you have eye contact with them - non stop (they will follow you if there is a need even till 200 - 300 meters). They willing to reduce the price to the extend of 60% for jewelry and 90% for handicraft. USD500 gold ring, with sapphire and diamonds were sold to us at USD200 and USD10 genuine mountain stones necklace can go to USD1 only. There was one fellar at the airport whom we never ask to help us carrying our luggage forced himself to do it and end up get 1 rupee (5cents) only. And many live in abandon houses and selfmade canopy with no eletricity (use candle only). Just imagine...

Of course we cannot compare with them as someone said to me. And this is not the only country facing such difficulties. Why do we need to care? It has nothing to do whether to care about them or not, it just that whether have we thought about how gratefull for all the things we got now, compare to them? Why do we need to complain so much? Be gratefull with what you have ok...

AJINOMOTO ANYONE?

Life would have been plain if without flavour. Plain world not tasty at all...boring... You and I need something to exite our daily living life and sometimes the exitement we look for or creates cause chaos and the opposite to others, not boring but too much problems for them to handle.

Being someone who said from the heart and direct crystal clear tend to have not a bright future in corporate ladder but that is me. I just say what I know as a fact and if you do not like it, then its too bad, even if you are my boss, I still cannot be the YES MAN all the way. This I have practiced in my 20 years working experience. 80% of my ex-boss and current boss do not like my 'direct' talking and ex'pressing'. One of my ex-boss even recommended to the director to have me sack due to my 'in-subordination' aka NONE YES MAN attitude, but end up his the one who were advice to leave the company ammicably.

Not to mentioned too much about gender but it cannot be avoided, a higher percentage of female in any work industries tend to say and indirectly and have exccesive expressions of words or story telling for even something very small issue in nature. THey like to elaborate which at the end sometimes they get trouble for their own extra antics. This is what has happens when you mendle with people personal matters (husband and wife issue, exxagerate laser mouthing', talk without facts about others etc.). Recently one in the verge for being slap and another has been bodily injury threaten for their 'sibuk jaga tepi kain orang' and extra AJINOMOTO seasoning on others personal lives. I think this flavouring of life has to do with the gender DNA, I don't know exactly but it has been there since the beginning of mankind.

So ladies, think before you talk about others especially me... I do not intend to slap or injure you physically but I will find ways to do that emotionally...


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Irritation

You told me that we will do it together, no one else will come in between us, not like last year. You told me that I know what is best, I'm the expert, you are here to support me in making sure everything will be implemented as plan, as I proposed, because I know better and I'm the expert, you are not, you don't know anything about s......y. This you have said to me 4 months ago.

Time goes by and changed, you also changed and end up today you became the expert because you the boss (automatically becomes expert in everything), eventhough you don't know what is it all about or what the hell is going on!!! You said others make you confuse but actually you the one who makes everyone confuse...except for that poor fellar!!!

I have tried my best to help you, to understand you and lend a hand in whatever assistance you required. I also have tried to avoid talking and thinking about all the negative stuff about you, but I'm just a normal human being that have weaknesses too. After all the majority of the staff in the company and even the staff work under you directly, seat next to you, walk with you, hee hee haa haa with you, and many many others keep on talking, telling and labelling so many weaknesses you have which at times very irritating but not entertaining, which you do not realise or as what you have said previously that you are such a ignorant person, therefore, I have no choice but to agree with the majority voice and joined them.

I cannot tahan anymore, I'm tired and fed up with your nonsense!!! Apa nak jadi, jadilah!!! I tak marah tapi menyampah!!!

Whatever....


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Mr. Conman

I just do not understand why someone like to con his own relatives or family members, to gain something which at time is worthless.

He was known in the family circle for his hard working and loyal to his wife and kids. Whatever he do, he did it to benefit his own family. This I can understand very well compared to others whom just benefitting for his ownself.

This botak fellar is not young anymore and previously was in the prison for 3 years for CBT (criminal breach of trust). He only complete standard 4 of education. But has work his butt up to look like someone who has uni degree. First I thought so too. Too bad his my uncle and he treated me well when I stayed with his family for few years many - many years ago.

I only started to realise of his 'jake of all trade' way of doing things when he persuaded me more than 20 years ago to sell my first VCR and use the money to finance some of his family matters. I ended up gain nothing!!! How stupid!!! Stupid!!! FRom then onwards, I've tried to avoid to have anything to do with him. I know he is a conman now. About 5 years ago he re-appear in my life, after his release from prison. I thought he might have changed thus not want to prejudge him and gave him another chance. But from then till today, I realise that he had con me more than 10k and luckily I'm financially better then before. Few nights ago, he tried to con me again, and I have said to myself this has to be put to end and never in my life, I scolded and lectured him upside down until he don't know what to say.

Hello! Until when you want to keep on conning people? You are not young anymore! You need to change! Change to a new leaf like Obama! You have to throw away your current blueprint and get a new one!! Appraise youself and look at your weaknesses!!! What have you achieve thus far??!!!........ Mr. Conman mum for few minutes before he says sorry and sorry and sorry many many times.....and ask where do you learn all this thing my nephew?!!! The answer is as simple as common sense. Hope you no con me no more....

What Makes A Malaysian A Malaysian

You can name all the players from the the English Premier League, but ask you to name one football player from Malaysia , one name also cannot come out.

When StreamyX come, you complain StreamyX too slow. When Maxis Broadband come, you complain Maxis Broadband always disconnects. When WiMax come, you complain Wimax too expensive. In the end, you say StreamyX still the best lah.

When toll price increase, you complain. When petrol price increase, you complain. When you go Starbucks buy RM10 coffee, NO COMPLAINTS.

When you cannot find parking in a shopping mall and have to walk very far, you complain. When you go inside the shopping mall and there's SALE , run from one end of 1Utama to the other also NO COMPLAINTS.

You are always late. And the excuse you give when you're late is always either: (a) traffic jam (b) no transport or (c) cannot find parking.

You have a parent who force you to take science stream in high school, study engineering in Uni, then when you graduate, they ask you to forget everything you learnt in Uni and do commerce.

You know someone who can specially develop an mat salleh (Whiteman) accent when speaking to a American / British / Australian.

You complain against the government in kopitiam (coffe shop), you talk loud loud. Leave anonymous comments on blogs, you also talk loud loud. Attend ceramah (political talk) by DAP, you shout loud loud. Then when Opposition organise a protest and ask you to go, you dun wan. Scared later kena tangkap (arrest) by ISA.

Every year on the 30th April, you are one of the people below queueing up last minute to submit your tax return at the IRB.

When you pay RM10 for something that costs RM1, you blame the Chinese.

When a government service is too slow, you blame the Malays.

When a building is not good and collapsed, you blame the Indians.

When a Chinese student won a scholarship, you say 'Wah! Very clever hor?'

When a Malay student won a scholarship, you say 'Aiya! Of course lah! He Malay mah!'

When an angmoh (Whiteman) stranger kiss you on the cheek to say hello, you very happy. When a Malaysian guy kiss you on the cheek to say hello, you slap him.

The NEW Beginning

It has been said that the past is past. We look forward for future. Nevertheless, the past for most of us has a lot of unhappiness but there were also many happy times. Be positive and you will see more good things to come.

Last night, I was at a mall just strolling around after I have the Korean food for dinner. I stumbled upon a book fair and immediately saw a book that interest me, Chinese Horoscope for 2009. Few weeks before this, my mum says that next year will be a good year for me. I felt some motivation then, some at least. Come back to the book, I quickly search for my horoscope and found that all the things mentioned in it was very positive and good to me. When I make comparison, I notice there are still some negative elements for other horoscope. Double joy I guess!!! It sure a good thing to come for me. Emmmm....

Few days back, I notices many open opportunities for me. And today even after some frustration in the beginning, it end up better than I thought. I manage to sit down and chat with the GM for more than 30 minutes and release some of my thought which accepted positively by the GM and want it to be implemented as soon as possible! Wow!! This might be really a new beginning for me. I just need to pray and trust God and give thanks for all the opportunities he given me.

NotEasyMoney

One wonder why they are some people who can get money as easy as plucking the apple from its tree? Also wonder why some people who work their butt out still could not manage to get a decent amount of money?

Many, sure have tried half dozen of odd jobs besides the normal 9 - 5 routine. Work part time during weekends, part time at night and some girls to the extend of selling and give 'special' service..., don't forget the boys too. You know what I mean...

Nowadays can make money from internet as well - affiliates programs, adsense and etc. But not many becomes as succesfull as they have thought. You have to spend a lot of time infront of the computer, even for someone who are expert in IT find it very tough.

But some people were very lucky. Recently, I read in the newspaper that someone have won RM20 million (USD5.7 million) jackpot without so much of hard work. WOW!!!

Some can easily make money out of nothing and without so much of hard work and in contrast many are struggling like hell to survive. Not easy money lol!!!

Harmony Guys?...

Let us assume that our work place is a plant with beautiful flowers in full bloom. It survives with sunlight, water and fertile soil.

Lacking any one of the ingredients, it will wither and die...

God has put us together as a multiracial, multisocial, multibackgrounds, multiacademic, multimentality, multireligion, multiideology and many other multi differences in the work place that has toiled for many years, and to achieve what we are today. Lets value the harmony and prosperity existing in this company.

Blow The Job

I have been working hard, very hard for my employer for many years. Never complaint so much as other colleagues, for me its just part of the job whenever we stumbled with problems. Thats the fact, we are here to solve problems.

But lately, for the past months I sees the problems becomes more and more. These problems are not much of a problem relating to what my job functions is related to. The problem is the management team lead by this lady that does not have experience in the industry but try to show she knows everything and can do everything, but in a wrong way thus has caused politic taking among the senior staff and confuse the lower ranking staff. The morale became very low.

Staff are complaining too on many issues related to their wellfares. She got guts to accuse me for instigating the staff!!! Hello..... people have mouth, I can't do much about what they want to say or raise and I have nothing to do with it. Its freedom of speech ok.. go check on your own backyard first (to confirm no one talk bad about you behind your back). I believe if she really looking, she would find even her own staff has been talking about her.

Personnaly I think she is not clever enough, but she once said to me "I can look pretty, model look, sweet but I'm not dumb you know". Actually majority of the staff who can think wisely would say shes really dumb actually... Emm....one wonders how can she end up at the high position when there are many senior and experience staff around that are much more qualified and understand the job better. Many have suggested that she has use the blow the job technique to the boss... he he...

Be Positive Say You...

Please do not be negative... huh!! (sigh), the GM said to me this afternoon.

Honestly speaking, I have been vocal in championing the positive way of doing things as best as possible. Being human, its natural to have feeling of discomfort, dissappointment, fed up, tired and mumble a bit, but this does not indicate that I'm a negative person. Get your facts right before open your mouth, I thought. Emm... nevermind, I'm still okay I guess...

It is also natural for a superior to scold, bombard or raise their voice or show their 'boss aura' towards their subordinates, sometimes without checking first, thinking that I would be afraid and feel intimidated. But I'm not the kind of guy you can easily threaten. Still, what to do.... I'm just a small potato here. Even, when we raise some important matter, they will say it is not important and is wrong for me to raise it eventhough that is the only way to raise it. They want to know what is the problem, when I tell them the truth, they want to know what is the solution, I tell them everything but later they said that is not the problem. If you know better than me, why you ask me then??? Do it yourself!!!

What the f.....! I'm still positive...positive...

Relish & Enjoy

It has been a very long and tired non stop adventure for the past 3 months or so. I have been trying to find ways to slow down the pace and relax a bit. But I always stuck with something new to do. Even the trip away from the city few weeks back also can't seem helping out to ease the stress level.

Luckily, few days back one of my friend contacted me and invite me to his 'happy hours' establishment. I was somewhere afar in the middle of discussion at that time when he call, and I thought why not? When is the best time? The best time to go is usually at times where you never plan to go and its will be more fun I guess.

And at the end I have a very good time through out the night till the next afternoon, relishing all the mess in my head (s) : got layed (x2) and I really have a marvelous time enjoying everything!!! Emmm... I should do this more frequent from now onwards...


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How to say NO

There has been many times that I received calls from telemarketers inviting me to attend their respective companies product offering. In the past I have mix reaction and reply. The first experience I have was more than 10 years back, it was a holiday timeshare and I've found it was a reasonable good offer and not easy to resist. I ended up became a member by paying a huge initial sum. I only utilese the package for the 1st year. The following year it just fell off from my schedule due to other commitments.

Later, I received other similar invitations as well which I turn down politely. Some I attended but left the office in less than 10 minutes. Few months back, I was invited for a presentation on medical health packages which 'force' me to make decision on the spot. This has given me pressure to make the decision due to other commitments. Even if the offer is excellent, it tend to have some flaws too i.e. you have to make decision on the spot without delay after the presentation. For example in the case of the medical health package which intended to make you become much more healthy, it ended up makes me feel dizzy with the continous pressure to take up the package. Such scenario would not have serve the purpose of the offer at the first place. I prefer to give the prospect ample time to think about it because it is not a small sum for the downpayment.

Today, again I was cornered by 3 people from a leisure company offering their packages. They all keep saying it is a good package and I should grab it. I've told them nowadays I usually would not make anymore mistake by saying YES on the spot for any such offer anymore thus I need some times to think about it if I want to commit myself to it. They kept me there for more than 2 hours instead of 45 minutes even I have said NO many times. They let me go after the last head hancho of the company can't persuaded me any longer when I said my final NO.

Even when we say NO, some people still do not want to understand to accept the decision. Why can't they? No means NO, don't they know what does that means? Wat a day lol....

Lets Gossip!

I'm not use in gossiping you know. But when met up with some of my friends who talks a lot about their bosses, colleagues or whom they know, it is evident that I can't avoid but to participate in the related topics whichever effected me.

I've found that many of us actually kept tonnes of unhappines, anger, frustration and many unsolve issues inside our mind, and this sometimes create stress. This issues most of it comes from a third party.

But by getting together with friends or even having conversation with someone we just met and get to know tend to give us the opportunity to release such stresses. I have tried it, and I feel very good about it which give me more energy and ideas how to overcome the issues that had causes me stress at the first place. Go gossip! go gossip!. You might agree with me and you might not, but whatever it is...I've felt much relief now...

R U Religious Correct?

I'm somewhat people call a free thinker but I believe in God. Throughtout my childhood years I have learn many of what my father's side religion were teaching about.

All the religion in the world teach about love, respect, do good things, avoid wrong doing and many positive things for benefits of our soul. During my adulthood lives, I saw many of all this teaching was not practice by majority of the religious followers. Many just follow blindly without any effort to study and understand their own religion thus many had come up with different ideas or miss-interpret the teachings.

Today, I got to know that someone had said about me behind my back that I'm not a true believer and not worthy to continue as one. The reason becoz he saw me together with my non believer girlfriend and attending at non believer functions.

Being a multiracial country, we cannot avoid meeting up many people from different culture and believes and also attending to their respective functions once awhile. You cannot say that your religion is better then the other one, and theirs is no good, its a very subjective issue in reality.

If you r so pious, then why not you approach and teach someone that who lack in understanding and practice of the said teaching? instead of avoiding or talk behind people's back? isn't this consider as wrong too? so what the hell r u talking about being a good believer? a staunch believer? what a hipocrit!!!

Anyone have Osama Ben Laden contact number???


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Shopping

It has been a very long time since the last time I went for shopping. Shop for something that for me, for myself and I have never imagine that I can really go shop and shop. This shopping stuff is dominated by the female gender as what we all were aware of. 'Shopping' is not for me... and majority of the straight guys out there. We usually 'buy' what we want only.

But I manage to grab more shopping bags than I use to. What did I bought? 1 light blue stripe long sleeve shirt, 1 pink / yellow (color me blind) stripe long sleeve shirt, 3 sexy underwears in different colors, a snicker and a matching sock. WOW!!! In total I bought 7 items at one go!!! And have my hair cut too! How does that feel man? Aaaaa...less money in my wallet already I guess... I think I have to go slow and buy one thing at a time for the next shopping venture, just go and buy what you really need is important such as the underwear:)


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Dream To Be Rich

We are living in utmost materialistic world today. To have sufficient money is very important in our lives, but many says money is not everything. However, many also concluded that everything needs money.

Many also said money can't buy happiness, and they also saying without money, one can becomes worst than not happy. Some to the extend of suiciding.

We can't run away from searching for ways of making more money because everyone of us have our own dreams to fulfill and most of it needs money. Dream to have nice and big car, big house, travel the world without restrictions or worry, buy and eat what we want and many more.

I have many dreams (while I was asleep), going nice places, meeting nice people (celebrities and VIPs), enjoy driving good car, and all this makes me smile but it ended once I woke up from my sleep.

There are many ways to achieve our dreams. You can work harder and smarter of what you are doing now or participate in any money making business. In this modern generation with all the technology at hand, you can do it either online or offline. Go catch your dreams!!

There's a friend of mine whom I asked what would be his dream car if he earn RM20,000 (USD$5,800) per month? This question arise after I reveal to him that I would get a Honda City (cost more than RM120,000) with monthly installment of less than RM2,500 (USD$750). His answer was a 2nd hand Daihatsu Charade which only cost less than RM10,000 (USD$2,950). Come on man!!! is that your dream car???!!! Oh! wat ever....


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Holiday

Some says holiday is good to get away from all the stress.

Some says holiday is time to get closer with family and to spend more quality times with them.

And there are many more reasons why holiday is needed and many more ways how we should spend it.

Some might only utilise the none working days by watching TV, eat fast food, sleep, watch TV again and spend the whole weekend in the house.

What about you???

Emm... to me it's not much different bcoz I still get headache and stress when I was away for 3 days (my so call holiday). I tried to eat, watch TV and sleep but it just can't work out. The phone still ring (call and sms).

When I reach the office today, I have more than 100 emails piled up already. Each of it has it individual stress level for me. I even have raise my voice already to few people in my first one hour in the office.

I think there are many other out there having the same or worst situation.

What happen in todays world is not something we all want it. The relaxing holidays we longing for is far from our reach. Oh hell!...wat da ever...


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Kids Nowadays

What a trip to Ipoh (capital of one of the state situated mid west coast of Malaysia) few days back. I have never drive there before, been there maybe but not sure when, very long ago I guess.

It took me about 1 and half hour to reach the destination (my cousin's house), luckily I've got a good navigator, my mum. She has been to the house few times already, so the travelling is smooth all the way. We have departed very early though, to get away from the expected traffic due to the long holidays (it's Aidilfitri celebrations).

Actually my cousin had flew to China meeting up with his in laws, and left his mother (my mum elder sister) and nephew at his house. I have expected the 'visitation' as one boring experience to me and it became as I have thought. Reason being I have never been there in my adulthood, no friends and don't know where to 'express' myself whilst there, and most of all this so call long distance nephew of mine were too much to handle.

I thought I would have a decent time there, away from works and city buzz of KL (traffic congestion presumebly). Its end up I have to face this little 'pig headed 5 years old boy monkey'. I thought my 4 years old niece and 1 and half year old nephew (my younger brother kids) is terrible, but this is worst, nightmare!!!

I don't want to mention about his parents. This boy is just get into my nerve everytime he open his mouth and show his "want to eat someone" facial expression. His grandma, my auntie have spanked him with rattan many times during my 3 days there, but he never learn!!! He always shows disrecpectful to all of us, this I can't accept and thought of doing something to him boiling very deep inside me. I just can't stand this boy! Alas I did something to him infront of his grandma, I just don't care! And he manage to mellow down his 'bad attitude'...emm for a while. Better than nothing!

I have concluded and following are some of the points base on my observation for why these children including my brothers have behave such a way (disrespectful, aggresive, ignorant / never listen to adult);

a. bad example from parents
b. lack of parents attention
c. parents / caretaker does not put more effort to teach them what is right or wrong
d. parents / caretaker forgot the fundemental recipe of 'love with teaching' not 'hurting'
e. children were let free do what they want without restrictions or supervisions
f. children were exposed too much of television (violent programs) such as Ultraman, Japanese robots, hand combat kungfu and sword fighting scene

Even as now, while I'm typing this blog at a CC, the boys next to me (13 - 14yrs old) and another younger group opposite me (8 - 10yrs old) chanting all the four letter words (in English and Malay) every 1 to 2 minutes. Didn't they know adults was seating next to them?!. Where is the respect?! I just wonder, where are their parents?! What happen to kids nowadays ha????!!!!


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Long Lost Friend or Friends

Hi how are you? Still remember me?

Emm... have you ever receive such call? It happen to me today, and you know what? I can't remember at first, but being someone who is good in identifyng voices from phone calls, even if it were from someone who I have not meet up for more than 5 years... I got the name right on the spot on 2nd guess!!!

But I think we all only can guess it right if that someone was really a friend to us. I can't help but walk back to the past memories remembering this long lost friend of mine.

It just a wonderful feeling that someone still remember you and give you a call. We should cherish the moment and look forward to have the conversations again.

What a afternoon... hei! my car still at the workshop!!

STUPID & UNDECISIVE

I can't help but to agree with my other colleagues and friends when comes to the stand that some of our bosses are really stupid, can't make good decision and wasting our valuble times which eat out our income sharing.

Being a boss doesn't mean you are clever in what you are doing, you were at the post mostly not by own your ability but because of 2 reasons : good support (by order / no choice / no way out) from your peers and staff and your very good apple polishing towards your bigger boss. Thats it!!

Most of this little Napoleon (power crazy) does not even know what they have in their own territory. That is why many things under them have becomes redundant without them realising it. When approached about the issue, they always at their most lost or does not know the topic of discussion, problem at hand and what to do to solve it. Many cannot make decision and if there is one, it always undecisive. One wonder how come this people get the job?

What happen to the world? Stupid too I guess...

Mood

There are so many things to do, sometimes we do not have enough time to clear all the mess, to implement what we have planned, do what being told or instructed and etc. The piling up of all these in our head causes stress and change of mood.

But the major issue for mood changing actually came from laziness. This lazy feeling appeared once you open up your eyes or wake up from your long hour of sleep. Everybody has the same feeling, emmmm...still got few minutes, emmm....the wheather so nice out there - raining - best time to hug your boulster...what a wonderful feeling... but wait! then you think about your work!, huh! how nice if today no need to go to work... emmm....

I've got staff who absence from work the other day. When question by his superior why he didn't turn up for work, he simply answer 'I don't know'... then another staff who also absence gave this answer 'I have no mood'. Basically its natural for everyone to have such 'no mood' feeling but that is not a good excuse for not turning up for work lol!!!

I also don't feel like working and do anything... just wanna rest, rest, eat, watch TV, sleep.... imagine if everyone in the world behave such a way, then I think one day the earth also might say the same... so matiloh!!!

Mood konon...pirah!!!

What Price Security?

It has been a talk in the law enforcement and security industry on this topic for very long time. What price security?

We have heard so many reports related to security breach which most of it happen due to lack of security measures and support from the owner or management of the individual organisation. Many owners or business organisation concentrate more on the marketing, promotion and etc. strategy that never really focus on steps to safeguard their investments from theft, criminal activities and other safety and security issues that concern or have an affect on their customers.

There are even some management of these companies that when talk about security, like they already know everything about security. But they are not the right people to talk about security matters, its suupose to be the expert do the talking and advice what is best (in term of security) for the organisation.

This management or executives even have their wish list i.e. to have the best equipments for their services and expect security support to accomplish their targets. But they shows their shock with their big eyes and succumb to the idea and say they can't continue with it once they got to know the cost for the implementations.

Actually it's all about cost. If you want good stuff, then you must willing to spend big. With the bombing here and there such as at Islamabad, one wonder what you price on security? what? what? ever?...

Wife To Be???

Emmm...someone text me for a party invitation. He mentioned 'bring your wife along'.

I replied 'i have no wife'.

He text me back 'bring your wife to be'.

I answered 'i no longer have wife to be - long gone - not seeing each other anymore'

He replied 'believe in God'

What you say?!!! whatever.......

This Is What I Want!

Have you ever experience working with someone with authority? Sure you have, it can be your current boss, your father, your big brother, community leaders etc.

What most of them have in common? They want to have authority, power, to bullie others and whatever that benefits themself. Some of this people basiccally does not know what the hell they trying to do but they just keep on doing it in which, sometimes it really look stupid on them in return.

Today I experience another similar episode of this 'boss' of mine. We have a product demo by a supplier. The product which I have explain to her (the boss) few times before and we have agreed it should be user friendly and convenience for our customers. The demo session actually is for her to see it by herself the usage practicality.

The supplier had briefed everyone in the room how does the product works, which is as what I have basically explain to her the last time. However, she immediately comes up with different ideas and focusing on different scope. She was standing most of her 30 minutes while she's in the room. This cause tension towards other support groups and even the supplier as well. She keep on saying 'This Is What I Want' or 'I Want It Like This'. Most of us does not dare to say anything eventhough we all sure know this 'boss' is actually doesn't know what she talking about. End up, we still cannot have any solid decision on the product and time is running out...oh...what the hell.....whatever lol!

Politicone

I'm not a politician. I don't really bother about politics in the past eventhough I remember clearly my aunt, which I was staying with many many years ago was a very serious politician.

The funny thing is this aunt and the other aunt who stayed at the south joined different political party and imagine what would happen when they meet. They talk and argue about whos the stronger and bla...bla...bla.... Sometimes the sisters will not be talking to each other for awhile due to their disagreements.

Politics also were seen at my workplace. This might not be new to most of us. It might happen at your workplace too.

The company has many worker who has been working for a very long time for the company, some with 10 years, some with 20 years and some more than that. Too bad many who has been working so long does not been given the opportunity to grow or upgraded to higher level even with their long experience and vast knowledge in their work.

One clear example was few years back. The company, through the owner has handpick few female staff to join the company and they were given high position such as executives, managers and even General Manager. This group of new staff does not has the experience in the business we dealing with, their qualification also were doubtful. This has de-moralised many current workers who has better experiences and qualifications. Major political games started since then.

As I've said, I don't know how to play politics but looking at the circumtances i.e. you can gain a lot from playing politics eventhough you are not good in what you were doing. I've seen this in the workplace, everyone try to grab any opening opportunity infront even its not belong to them. I can see I also need to do something like that...and I have done a few for my own benefits which I gain some and felt very good about it.

Recently, I was approached by someone who is the division chairman for a political party. He wants me to join him and I was offered to be the youth leader in his division. I was very shocked in hearing the offer, but later thought about gaining something surface in my mind. Today, I have make my mind to join this political party and look forward for better politicone opportunities.

I don't know what politicone means, i just put it there, sounds ok to me, it's like politic with al-capone flavor in it. What ever...